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  • The Lily is a unique vibrator inspired by the peace lily 💕

This crowdfunded vibrator is designed by Fleurotics, and we are excited to be the first US distributor of this one of a kind vibe! So, how do you use it? The center “pistil” can be used directly against the body externally, or it can be diffused through the petal for gentler stimulation. You can also pull the petal back like a corn husk, and use the center portion as an insertable vibe. We really love that the extraordinary design of this toy makes it possible to use in places where vibrators aren’t legal or are often confiscated. It can easily be passed off as a facial massager! 🌺🌼🌸
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The BON4 Silicone Chastity cages are secure 🔐 and comfortable — but not *too* comfortable. Made in Amsterdam, these ventilated cages are perfect for longer term wear ⛓🎈
  • The nJoy line consists of 5 butt plugs and 3 dildos — all of which we adore! Here are some of the plugs and the infamous Pure Wand looking pretty in pastels 🍡🍬🍭 📸 by @iimpaulaa @lilpassatchey & @renadkinzzz for Spectrum Boutique ✨
  • The Sona is the most popular air pressure stimulator we carry! It’s intense as hell and even though it isn’t technically a pump, it feels like a small robotic creature is giving you mind blowing oral sex. There, I said it!!! In all honesty I thought this type of toy just wasn’t for me personally when I tried other brands, but after bringing this lil bean on the road with me and actually using it, I have fallen in love. I now understand how the pressure and stimulation changes if you’re pressing it up against your body vs lightly letting it latch on, and I have been using it on the LOWEST SETTING and just playing with the sensation by switching up how much pressure I apply. The Sona Cruise (which is the slightly more $ version) has a motor that doesn’t change as much with pressure, but I personally like that it dampens! Anyway, I will most certainly be writing a lengthier review of this one in the near future — it’s not every day I surprise myself like this! Please enjoy the Chicago bean style selfie I took of my reflection on the back 😎
  • $pread was a quarterly magazine by and for sex workers published from 2005 to 2011. This book is a collection of essays ranging from frightening to hilarious, from authors all around the world. This is a book for everyone and anyone who has sex. Not only is this an insightful and compelling read, it’s a resource for social change. Here is my well-loved copy on the road with me! Find it in our *Books* section 🌈📚
  • The Clear CTRL harness from Stockroom is a transparent alternative to the usual black and red aesthetic of bondage gear. ☁️🌬 And for those of us who love to wear our pervertables out and about, the entire set is just as sexy over clothes as well! The entire set includes a bust harness, chastity belt, wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, leash... and now we carry the Clear CTRL locking collar as well! All under our BDSM > Restraints and BDSM > Wearables sections 🔎🔐🔍 Thank you @renadkinzzz @lilpassatchey & @iimpaulaa for creating this amazing series, and @daniellachappella for being a muse-tactic model 🥰
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  • Yay for the Dame Products Pillo! Okay, clearly there are other wedge shaped sex positioners out there, but I like this one a LOT for two reasons: it’s a cotton blend (as opposed to velvety fabric) and it has HANDLES. The biggest issue I encounter with sex positioners is that they scootch and slip away. The handles give us something to grab onto! Okay that’s all please enjoy me fanning my bum to represent “sex” 😂 @dameproducts (tapestry is by @bfgf )
  • Prostate pals! The Nexus Simul8 (left) is a dual motor prostate massager with a vibrating perineum massager that bridges between the plug and cock & ball loops. The tension between these the rings and the plug feel incredibly while thrusting and fucking or just playing solo ♾
The Aneros Vice 2 (right) is a remote controlled prostste massager that can be used handsfree and controlled with the LED screen remote. Aneros is famous for its prostate pleasure focused designs, and the upturned nubs give you resistance points to work against (kind of like a kegel toy for your ass!) ✅💚 Find both in our Toys > Butt section 🔋
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  • We just started carrying a lot of new books, and I chose to read Trauma is Really Strange, a graphic novel on trauma, last night. Well, it truly punched me in the face with some realizations and insight into why my mind and body behave the way they do. While I’ve understood the concept of “dissociation” logically, this book gets right to the heart of it in a kind and loving way. When we are spacing out, it’s one of the ways our body has learned to protect us. Trauma causes our internal “smoke alarm” to go off constantly even when there’s no fire, and while it takes time and awareness, we can absolutely heal from our trauma and come out more resilient on the other side. And remember: our fight-or-flight response is in a part of our brain that can’t be reasoned with or rationalized, so worrying and trying to self-investigate isn’t likely to calm us down when we are having trauma responses. So this is a nice little reminder that we don’t need to understand our trauma to heal from it. This is truly a short and sweet read that gave me more hope and optimism than I could have ever expected from a 32 page graphic novel! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Women LOVE Sex!

By on February 28, 2018

We don’t have to talk a woman into having sex.

Women love sex! They actually WANT sex.

Only problem is they deal with cultural stuff surrounding sex. More than us. You know, being seen as a “slut.” For us, someone calls us that, it’s almost a compliment.

Why the double-standard?

Women are seen as the “guardians” of sex. I mean, if a woman doesn’t open the “door” to us and we force our way in… well, there are laws against that. Even though she’s got the SAME EXACT desires we have, if she opens the “door” too easily, she gets chastised, ostracized.

At least that’s the story. But to what extent is that story meant to “control” women?

A woman’s sexuality is like an ocean. It’s large, powerful, flowing, changing, receptive. Men take a dip inside and come out limp. Not to mention her sexuality can bring the strongest of us to our knees. Hello Samson. And then of course there are the husbands who’ve historically worried whether his children really are his.

So, to what extent is that word “slut” meant to control women’s sexuality? ‘Cause I don’t see why women can’t enjoy the same freedom to enjoy sex as we do.

Agree with me, disagree with me. I don’t care. My point is this.

One big reason women SEEM like they’re not into sex as much as us is because they have the social consequences to deal with. As well as pregnancy consequences. And even emotional consequences (sex is often an emotional experience for women). So, they hide their desires.

Doesn’t mean they don’t want it. ‘Cause they do. Oh, man do they. They just have more stuff to deal with around it than we do. They don’t want to be judged, so they hide it.

“No, no, no, no,” I hear someone saying. “I’ve been with my wife for twelve years and she won’t give me any. How do you explain that?”

Hey, if she has sex out of obligation… Or if sex isn’t fun or pleasurable… of course she won’t want it.

But if she ENJOYS the sex… why would anyone NOT want something that’s pleasurable?

Still don’t believe me?

Look at a book like Nancy Friday’s “Secret Garden.”

Nancy Friday is a journalist who had collected women’s most secret sexual thoughts and fantasies. That book’s a collection of women’s fantasies from the mouths of real women.

Read that and you soon see how CRAZY sexual women are.

Not only that, you see a theme. A lot of women’s fantasies have to do with being dominated, “ravaged,” and “taken.” You realize, women don’t just love sex, they love to get taken!

What does that mean?

#1. Don’t Be Judgmental.

Never EVER pass judgment on her sexuality. It’s GREAT that she’s sexual! Love it. Let her be free. Make her feel comfortable letting go and being so sexual with you.

The more comfortable she is letting go (because she knows you won’t judge her), the more comfortable she’ll be to unleash the sexual BEAST inside of her.

And really… Is there anything more beautiful than a woman in ecstasy?

I know. Of course there isn’t.

#2. Attitude – She Wants You

You already have what she wants. You have a cock. She wants that, man.

So, you never have to talk a woman into sex. You never have to kiss her ass. You never have to spend loads of money in order to “get” sex from her.

After you make her feel comfortable with sex, all you’ve gotta do is turn her on. Believe me, she’ll want it then.

Well how do you do that?

#3. Give Her Sex She ENJOYS

Turn on her mind. Her mind is her largest sex organ. Turn on her mind, and her body will follow.

That means physical sex techniques won’t turn her on alone. You’ve gotta also use psychological sex techniques. Those are even more important.

What are psychological sex techniques?

Turning on her mind. Meaning…

First, you’ve gotta shut off the “slut” threat inside her, and make her feel comfortable giving herself to you.

One prime way to make her feel comfortable: massages. Give her a massage.

Even better? A leg and foot massage.

Most guys, including myself, forget to massage a woman’s lower body. But relaxing her lower body goes a loooong way to relaxing her whole body.

Second, you’ve gotta make her feel beautiful and sexy and desirable. That means getting completely and totally turned on by her. In addition, she’s gotta feel liked not just for her looks, but for her as a HUMAN BEING.

Complicated? Check.

Third, you’ve gotta spend plenty of time with foreplay. Her second biggest sex organ is her skin all over. Her va-jay-jay comes in third place.

So, spend time exploring her skin all over before touching her sexual bits and pieces. This teases her, and turns her mind on even more.

Man, let me tell you. She’ll be wet and BEGGING you for sex. Ha!

#4. TAKE her.

But you don’t always have to make “sweet love” to her.

Of course women enjoy that. But once you’ve got the water boiling, women ALSO love getting raunchy, animalistic, naughty. They love dirty talk, being taboo, being dominated.

Women are horny, man, HORNY.

Well, how do you “take” her?

  • Talk dirty
  • Make noise (be expressive, not just silent)
  • Pull her hair
  • Pin her hands behind her head
  • Slap her butt
  • Feel her breasts
  • Pick her up
  • Bend her over
  • Throw her on the bed
  • Give it to her hard.

GET IN TOUCH WITH THE ANIMAL WITHIN. Dominate her. ENJOY her.

Now, ladies come first. It’s the gentlemanly thing to do.

But I even hesitate writing that. I mean, definitely let a girl come before you. And if you come before she does, make sure to take care of your girl. But great sex isn’t just about the orgasm. A TOY can make her come for God’s sakes.

Great sex is more about paying attention to her, connecting with her. It’s like the old saying: the journey’s more important than the destination.

Let me tell you a quick story about this.

I had sex with this BEAUTIFUL girl who eventually became my girlfriend. One night we were reminiscing about the first time we had sex. I’ll never forget what she said: “I don’t even remember whether I had an orgasm or not, but I just remember the sex being REALLY good.”

Why? I had paid attention to her.

Now, there were other times I had sex with her and tried too hard to give her orgasm. And you know what? She DID have an orgasm naturaful breast reviews. But the sex wasn’t as good. Go figure.

So, orgasms are cool but even more important to having great sex: paying attention to the way her body responds moment-to-moment, rapport, making her feel beautiful and liked as a human being. AND also TAKING her, DESIRING her, ENJOYING her.

Then after it’s all done, making her feel beautiful.

Again?

Yes, again. “I can’t hold you close enough”… a satisfying ending will ensure she’ll be coming back to you for more.

My point it simple. She WANTS sex and she WANTS to be taken. So TAKE her!

Unleash her ocean of sexuality. And make her feel good about it along the way.

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