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  • We just stocked six new menstrual cups from Intima! The collapsible cups are the Lily One and Lily Compact (in two sizes), which are easy to travel with and very convenient. The smooth, tall cups are the Lily Cup and they are ideal for people with higher cervixes or heavier flows. Finally, the flatter round one is the Ziggy Cup, which can even be used during penetrative sex since it’s so flat and soft, almost like a silicone membrane. Hopefully one day they will make em in all of our fave colors!! 🌈💕
  • The Lily is a unique vibrator inspired by the peace lily 💕

This crowdfunded vibrator is designed by Fleurotics, and we are excited to be the first US distributor of this one of a kind vibe! So, how do you use it? The center “pistil” can be used directly against the body externally, or it can be diffused through the petal for gentler stimulation. You can also pull the petal back like a corn husk, and use the center portion as an insertable vibe. We really love that the extraordinary design of this toy makes it possible to use in places where vibrators aren’t legal or are often confiscated. It can easily be passed off as a facial massager! 🌺🌼🌸
  • ~chastity on the beach~
The BON4 Silicone Chastity cages are secure 🔐 and comfortable — but not *too* comfortable. Made in Amsterdam, these ventilated cages are perfect for longer term wear ⛓🎈
  • The nJoy line consists of 5 butt plugs and 3 dildos — all of which we adore! Here are some of the plugs and the infamous Pure Wand looking pretty in pastels 🍡🍬🍭 📸 by @iimpaulaa @lilpassatchey & @renadkinzzz for Spectrum Boutique ✨
  • The Sona is the most popular air pressure stimulator we carry! It’s intense as hell and even though it isn’t technically a pump, it feels like a small robotic creature is giving you mind blowing oral sex. There, I said it!!! In all honesty I thought this type of toy just wasn’t for me personally when I tried other brands, but after bringing this lil bean on the road with me and actually using it, I have fallen in love. I now understand how the pressure and stimulation changes if you’re pressing it up against your body vs lightly letting it latch on, and I have been using it on the LOWEST SETTING and just playing with the sensation by switching up how much pressure I apply. The Sona Cruise (which is the slightly more $ version) has a motor that doesn’t change as much with pressure, but I personally like that it dampens! Anyway, I will most certainly be writing a lengthier review of this one in the near future — it’s not every day I surprise myself like this! Please enjoy the Chicago bean style selfie I took of my reflection on the back 😎
  • $pread was a quarterly magazine by and for sex workers published from 2005 to 2011. This book is a collection of essays ranging from frightening to hilarious, from authors all around the world. This is a book for everyone and anyone who has sex. Not only is this an insightful and compelling read, it’s a resource for social change. Here is my well-loved copy on the road with me! Find it in our *Books* section 🌈📚
  • The Clear CTRL harness from Stockroom is a transparent alternative to the usual black and red aesthetic of bondage gear. ☁️🌬 And for those of us who love to wear our pervertables out and about, the entire set is just as sexy over clothes as well! The entire set includes a bust harness, chastity belt, wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, leash... and now we carry the Clear CTRL locking collar as well! All under our BDSM > Restraints and BDSM > Wearables sections 🔎🔐🔍 Thank you @renadkinzzz @lilpassatchey & @iimpaulaa for creating this amazing series, and @daniellachappella for being a muse-tactic model 🥰
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It’s. Raining. BUTT PLUGS! The b-Vibe Anal Training & Education Set includes three plugs: small silicone plug, medium vibrating plug, and large weighted plug. AND best of all, it comes with an educational booklet that’s over 50 pages and uses inclusive language. Cuz everybody has a butt, and we can all use the educational booty reminders 🥰 The Kit also includes a lube shooter and anal douche — while neither of these are absolutely necessary for booty play, they are fun little bonuses that come with the kit. Just add LUBE and you’ve got a beauteous booty bundle. 🌻

We are giving away FIVE b-Vibe Anal Training Kits — contest is open worldwide to folks 18 and up, and the winner will be selected Sunday night! How to enter:
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  • Yay for the Dame Products Pillo! Okay, clearly there are other wedge shaped sex positioners out there, but I like this one a LOT for two reasons: it’s a cotton blend (as opposed to velvety fabric) and it has HANDLES. The biggest issue I encounter with sex positioners is that they scootch and slip away. The handles give us something to grab onto! Okay that’s all please enjoy me fanning my bum to represent “sex” 😂 @dameproducts (tapestry is by @bfgf )
  • Prostate pals! The Nexus Simul8 (left) is a dual motor prostate massager with a vibrating perineum massager that bridges between the plug and cock & ball loops. The tension between these the rings and the plug feel incredibly while thrusting and fucking or just playing solo ♾
The Aneros Vice 2 (right) is a remote controlled prostste massager that can be used handsfree and controlled with the LED screen remote. Aneros is famous for its prostate pleasure focused designs, and the upturned nubs give you resistance points to work against (kind of like a kegel toy for your ass!) ✅💚 Find both in our Toys > Butt section 🔋
  • Rose are red
Selling dildos is my job
Who needs feral pigs when you’ve got these pleasure hogs?

The Bishop, Cone Small, and Piggy are just three of the new XL super soft silicone dildos we’re stocking from Tantus. Your holes deserve quality big toys! 🕹🌡🧮
  • We just started carrying a lot of new books, and I chose to read Trauma is Really Strange, a graphic novel on trauma, last night. Well, it truly punched me in the face with some realizations and insight into why my mind and body behave the way they do. While I’ve understood the concept of “dissociation” logically, this book gets right to the heart of it in a kind and loving way. When we are spacing out, it’s one of the ways our body has learned to protect us. Trauma causes our internal “smoke alarm” to go off constantly even when there’s no fire, and while it takes time and awareness, we can absolutely heal from our trauma and come out more resilient on the other side. And remember: our fight-or-flight response is in a part of our brain that can’t be reasoned with or rationalized, so worrying and trying to self-investigate isn’t likely to calm us down when we are having trauma responses. So this is a nice little reminder that we don’t need to understand our trauma to heal from it. This is truly a short and sweet read that gave me more hope and optimism than I could have ever expected from a 32 page graphic novel! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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What Types Of Sex Dreams Do You Have?

By on March 20, 2018

Sex is a natural, healthy and pleasurable part of life, so it’s not surprising that we dream about it. What is surprising, especially in this sexually liberal society, is that only about eight percent of our dreams are sexual.

In an often cited Montreal sex dreams research project conducted in the early part of the last decade, it was found that forty-five percent of men and forty-one percent of women participating in the study reported having sex dreams. Keep in mind that these numbers only relate to the research subjects. In other studies it was estimated that one hundred percent of men reported having sex dreams and eighty-four percent of women admitted having them.

I’d venture to say that we all have had, or will have a sexual dream at one time or another.

Of the eight percent of our dreams that are sexual, there are common themes that pop up regularly in both men’s and women’s nocturnal adventures.

Mae West, the American 20th century actress, once claimed that her first erotic dream was of a bear with a reddish-brown member about fourteen inches long. “I was,” she later quipped, “modest in my demands.”

Here are the most common types of sex dreams. Read them through and see which ones you’ve had.

Adultery Dreams

I wouldn’t rule out that this type of dream could be precognitive, but it’s usually not. Dreams of you or your partner being unfaithful is more likely to be about a situation or feeling where you’re not being true to yourself or your ideals/beliefs, etc.

Breasts

I’m not Freud, so I won’t suggest that dreaming of breasts, whether you’re a man or a woman, is referring to an unhealthy attachment to your mother. Breasts can mean a number of things, and in order to understand their significance in the dream, you would have to look at the context and additional content of the dream.

Genitalia

Dreaming of male or female genitals (doesn’t matter which gender) isn’t reflecting an obsession or unhealthy attitude, but probably is a metaphor or an analogy related to reproducing something, privacy or modesty.

Highly Erotic Dreams

These kinds of dreams are common and don’t necessarily mean that you’re over-sexed or that your tastes lean more toward the kinky stuff.

Homosexuality In Dreams

Contrary to many people’s and even dream worker’s beliefs (and often fears), dreaming of sex with a same-sex partner doesn’t mean you’re homosexual (unless you are gay, then you’d just analyze this type of dream the way you would any other sexual dream). The implication is probably that you want to develop a relationship with the individual in the dream, or that you want to resolve some conflict (make-up). Of course, these are just two of several possibilities. As with any image/symbol, you have to analyze it in context.

Impotence Dreams

Both men and women have these dreams, and though it’s possible that it’s a prodromal (health warning) dream, it’s more likely a dream that relates to feelings of impotence or your inability to perform in some other area of your life.

Incestuous Dreams

Now this type of dream is probably the one that disturbs dreamers the most. And with the exception of some kind of repressed trauma (which is very, very rare), has absolutely nothing to do with hidden or unnatural sexual feelings for a family member.

Kissing Dreams

Not all kissing dreams are sexual. If you’re kissing your child, your sister, a good friend, and there’s no passion or sexual energy, then you know it’s not a sex dreams.

Masturbation

I pretty much can guarantee that this type of dream isn’t going to be discussed among friends. Both men and women are still very quiet on the subject of self-gratification, which is essentially what the dream message is. Do something for or to please yourself.

Pregnancy Dreams

Though these aren’t necessarily sexual dreams, we can’t get pregnant (naturally at least) without sex, so it fits in with sex dreams. And yes, men have pregnancy dreams too. The question to ask yourself when you have this type of dream is: What am I creating (birthing), or bringing into the world?

Sex In Public

This type of dream is closely related to anxiety dreams where you’re naked in public or unprepared for a test of some kind. On the other hand, it may be an expression of your comfort with yourself, or being in the public eye.

Sex With A Celebrity

Ahhh, we can wish! Many dream workers will tell you that this type of dream is simple wish fulfillment. First of all, there’s nothing simple about dreams, and second, the celebrity may be a stand in for someone else, for a cause or talent, or showing you some role or part in your life that needs your attention.

Sex With A Stranger

Both married and single men dream of having sex with strangers more often than women do (though women dream of sex with a stranger as well). It doesn’t mean that you’re bored with your partner necessarily. Perhaps you’re looking to try something new in the bedroom, or in your life. Maybe you need to acknowledge the masculine aspects of yourself.

Sex With An Ex

This dream doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re still harbouring feeling for your ex, or that you want to reunite. Thought it could. Perhaps something in your current situation is reminding you of that relationship, or that individual. Is your hubby acting like the jerk you dumped before prom?

Sexual Assault Dreams

These are some of the most terrifying types of dreams for both men and women, though women tend to experience them much more often than men do.

Sleazy Dreams

Dreams of sexual encounters in less than proper places, or in less than proper ways, in no way implies that you’re looking to take a walk on the wild side. But it may be hinting at your attitude toward sex, or your current sexual relationship.

Wet Dreams

These types of dreams are enjoyable for both men and women, unless they’re part of a more disturbing type of sex dream. Teenagers have the most et dreams, but these types of dreams continue well into old age.

Sex dreams can be very pleasurable, but on the flip-side, they can be very unpleasant and downright terrifying. Because the subject is so sensitive, dreamers seem to be especially emotional, confused and/or concerned about them. As with any dream, the context and content of the sexual imagery is essential in uncovering the message your sex dream is trying to get to you. Take the time to look at all angles, rather than jump to the conclusion that it’s just about sex, or that the situation being depicted is actually what it is. Don’t let the sensitive nature of the subject matter colour your interpretation and understanding of the dream.

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