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  • We just stocked six new menstrual cups from Intima! The collapsible cups are the Lily One and Lily Compact (in two sizes), which are easy to travel with and very convenient. The smooth, tall cups are the Lily Cup and they are ideal for people with higher cervixes or heavier flows. Finally, the flatter round one is the Ziggy Cup, which can even be used during penetrative sex since it’s so flat and soft, almost like a silicone membrane. Hopefully one day they will make em in all of our fave colors!! 🌈💕
  • The Lily is a unique vibrator inspired by the peace lily 💕

This crowdfunded vibrator is designed by Fleurotics, and we are excited to be the first US distributor of this one of a kind vibe! So, how do you use it? The center “pistil” can be used directly against the body externally, or it can be diffused through the petal for gentler stimulation. You can also pull the petal back like a corn husk, and use the center portion as an insertable vibe. We really love that the extraordinary design of this toy makes it possible to use in places where vibrators aren’t legal or are often confiscated. It can easily be passed off as a facial massager! 🌺🌼🌸
  • ~chastity on the beach~
The BON4 Silicone Chastity cages are secure 🔐 and comfortable — but not *too* comfortable. Made in Amsterdam, these ventilated cages are perfect for longer term wear ⛓🎈
  • The nJoy line consists of 5 butt plugs and 3 dildos — all of which we adore! Here are some of the plugs and the infamous Pure Wand looking pretty in pastels 🍡🍬🍭 📸 by @iimpaulaa @lilpassatchey & @renadkinzzz for Spectrum Boutique ✨
  • The Sona is the most popular air pressure stimulator we carry! It’s intense as hell and even though it isn’t technically a pump, it feels like a small robotic creature is giving you mind blowing oral sex. There, I said it!!! In all honesty I thought this type of toy just wasn’t for me personally when I tried other brands, but after bringing this lil bean on the road with me and actually using it, I have fallen in love. I now understand how the pressure and stimulation changes if you’re pressing it up against your body vs lightly letting it latch on, and I have been using it on the LOWEST SETTING and just playing with the sensation by switching up how much pressure I apply. The Sona Cruise (which is the slightly more $ version) has a motor that doesn’t change as much with pressure, but I personally like that it dampens! Anyway, I will most certainly be writing a lengthier review of this one in the near future — it’s not every day I surprise myself like this! Please enjoy the Chicago bean style selfie I took of my reflection on the back 😎
  • $pread was a quarterly magazine by and for sex workers published from 2005 to 2011. This book is a collection of essays ranging from frightening to hilarious, from authors all around the world. This is a book for everyone and anyone who has sex. Not only is this an insightful and compelling read, it’s a resource for social change. Here is my well-loved copy on the road with me! Find it in our *Books* section 🌈📚
  • The Clear CTRL harness from Stockroom is a transparent alternative to the usual black and red aesthetic of bondage gear. ☁️🌬 And for those of us who love to wear our pervertables out and about, the entire set is just as sexy over clothes as well! The entire set includes a bust harness, chastity belt, wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, leash... and now we carry the Clear CTRL locking collar as well! All under our BDSM > Restraints and BDSM > Wearables sections 🔎🔐🔍 Thank you @renadkinzzz @lilpassatchey & @iimpaulaa for creating this amazing series, and @daniellachappella for being a muse-tactic model 🥰
  • 🍑 G I V E A W A Y 🍑

It’s. Raining. BUTT PLUGS! The b-Vibe Anal Training & Education Set includes three plugs: small silicone plug, medium vibrating plug, and large weighted plug. AND best of all, it comes with an educational booklet that’s over 50 pages and uses inclusive language. Cuz everybody has a butt, and we can all use the educational booty reminders 🥰 The Kit also includes a lube shooter and anal douche — while neither of these are absolutely necessary for booty play, they are fun little bonuses that come with the kit. Just add LUBE and you’ve got a beauteous booty bundle. 🌻

We are giving away FIVE b-Vibe Anal Training Kits — contest is open worldwide to folks 18 and up, and the winner will be selected Sunday night! How to enter:
🍑 Like this post, follow @bvibe_social & @shopspectrumboutique 🍑 Tag a friend in the comments
🍑 Bonus entry: share this post to your story
🍑 Bonus bonus entry: leave a product review on the Spectrum site
  • Yay for the Dame Products Pillo! Okay, clearly there are other wedge shaped sex positioners out there, but I like this one a LOT for two reasons: it’s a cotton blend (as opposed to velvety fabric) and it has HANDLES. The biggest issue I encounter with sex positioners is that they scootch and slip away. The handles give us something to grab onto! Okay that’s all please enjoy me fanning my bum to represent “sex” 😂 @dameproducts (tapestry is by @bfgf )
  • Prostate pals! The Nexus Simul8 (left) is a dual motor prostate massager with a vibrating perineum massager that bridges between the plug and cock & ball loops. The tension between these the rings and the plug feel incredibly while thrusting and fucking or just playing solo ♾
The Aneros Vice 2 (right) is a remote controlled prostste massager that can be used handsfree and controlled with the LED screen remote. Aneros is famous for its prostate pleasure focused designs, and the upturned nubs give you resistance points to work against (kind of like a kegel toy for your ass!) ✅💚 Find both in our Toys > Butt section 🔋
  • Rose are red
Selling dildos is my job
Who needs feral pigs when you’ve got these pleasure hogs?

The Bishop, Cone Small, and Piggy are just three of the new XL super soft silicone dildos we’re stocking from Tantus. Your holes deserve quality big toys! 🕹🌡🧮
  • We just started carrying a lot of new books, and I chose to read Trauma is Really Strange, a graphic novel on trauma, last night. Well, it truly punched me in the face with some realizations and insight into why my mind and body behave the way they do. While I’ve understood the concept of “dissociation” logically, this book gets right to the heart of it in a kind and loving way. When we are spacing out, it’s one of the ways our body has learned to protect us. Trauma causes our internal “smoke alarm” to go off constantly even when there’s no fire, and while it takes time and awareness, we can absolutely heal from our trauma and come out more resilient on the other side. And remember: our fight-or-flight response is in a part of our brain that can’t be reasoned with or rationalized, so worrying and trying to self-investigate isn’t likely to calm us down when we are having trauma responses. So this is a nice little reminder that we don’t need to understand our trauma to heal from it. This is truly a short and sweet read that gave me more hope and optimism than I could have ever expected from a 32 page graphic novel! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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3 Sex Skills You MUST Master (If You Want Awesome Orgasms)

By on February 28, 2018

There’s “sex”, and then there’s “SEX!” We’ve all had plain old missionary style sex that gets to be bore over the years. If you are just having standard, boring sex then you are really missing out on the real orgasmic pleasures of true mind blowing sex.

If you want to experience awesome orgasms, you just need to follow these 3 sex skills:

1. Long Lasting Sex. This must be mentioned first because it’s a HUGE reason why women, and men, experience either no orgasms at all, or else very lousy and weak orgasms.

Obviously this most often falls on the man. The man needs to learn to last long during sex and not experience the ever so common problem of premature ejaculation. This is a sex skill you simply have to learn if you want to give your partner incredible orgasms. And if you are suffering from premature ejaculation then your own orgasm is WEAK. Quick ejaculation orgasms are simply not as strong as those which take longer to achieve.

In order to last long during sex you have to learn some physical exercises and some mental breathing techniques to calm the mind and not get it overexcited (which is notorious for leading to quick ejaculations). Practice squeezing the small muscle between the anus and testicles which you can feel when you urinate and top mid stream. Flexing it will make it stronger and allow you to last. It takes some weeks to get used to but it is definitely worth it for both you and your partner.

Now if you are a woman, your job is to encourage your guy to learn to last. Give him the exercises and help him practice them so you can have the long lasting sex that you and he deserves.

2. Oral Sex Mastery. This is the second best sex skill you need to master because oral sex is unbelievably so darn pleasurable! Let’s be honest, oral sex feels amazing. It is oftentimes much more incredible than regular sex. For this reason alone you need to master this skill big time.

If you are woman you can easily learn some incredible techniques for giving ridiculous mind blowing orgasms to guys. The type where they look down in utter disbelief at the pleasure you are giving them.

If you are a guy it gets a little trickier. Honestly, most guys are clueless about “going down there”. There’s definitely certain techniques and rhythms to learn and major tips that work wonders for unbelievable orgasms. These are the type of orgasms that the woman remembers for years to come. You may split up with a woman, and then see them a few years later, and that initial look they will give you will automatically convey memories and images of those amazing nights of oral pleasure that you gave her. That’s how powerful good oral sex can be.

Some oral tips to get started with are to take things slow at first. Don’t rush down there and slobber away. Go slow and gradually pick up your pace developing a steady rhythm. Listen to her! If she is responding well then keep at what you are doing. If there’s obvious room for improvement then allow her to guide you a bit to where it feels best. Eventually you will want to learn the oral sex skills where you won’t need to be guided but you will provide ways to pleasure her that she never even knew about.

3. Hot Sex Positions. We talked about the missionary being lame. That’s because there are so many other positions to choose from and experiment with that are much “hotter” and more erotic than the typical missionary.

The key to awesome sex is variety. And variety will come in the form of switching up your sex positions. As an example, a small sampling of your standard rotation of sex positions can be the following: Have her on top, go from behind, insert from the side, straddle each other in the sitting position. There are many variations to sex and they are all incredibly pleasurable. The key is to mix it up. Learn as many as possible and rotate them.

Don’t just learn standard sex positions either, learn oral sex positions such as the 69 where you are both performing oral on one another at the same time.

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